Our Foster Care Adventure (Part 1)

28 10 2012

We are getting closer to being licensed Foster parents.  It has been an adventure so far and I imagine that the real adventure is just getting ready to happen.

So how did we get started on the path to foster care?  Well back in March of 2012, the Pastor, Mark Connelly, at our church, Mission Community Church, did a mini-series on the biblical basis of a new initiative the church was embarking on.  The initiative is called Esther’s Hope and it represents our efforts to help drain the foster care system in Arizona of children needing homes.

During the mini-series, I became convicted that God was asking my family to take some role in this effort.  I didn’t know what we were supposed to do but I was convinced that we needed to do something.  I didn’t say anything to my wife because, honestly,  I was afraid of her reaction.  There was an orientation meeting scheduled and I finally decided to talk with my wife about what I felt God was calling us to do.  I told her that I didn’t know what we were supposed to do as part of Esther’s Hope but that I was certain God was asking us to do something.  It turns out that she was feeling the same way and was waiting for me to say something about it as confirmation of her feelings.  That was confirmation for me that it really was God asking us to be involved.

We went to the orientation meeting and were astounded, as were the folks doing the orientation, at the turn out for the orientation meeting.  The orientation meeting was held in a room that holds 450 or so and it was standing room only!  After getting information about the foster care system in Arizona and how Christian Family Care was participating as a licensing agency, the group was divided in to two smaller groups.  One group was those that were interested in becoming licensed foster parents or adopting.  The other group were the folks that were interested in supporting foster families.

This was our first decision about what our next step was going to be.  We decided to stay with the group interested in becoming foster families or adopting.  I still wasn’t sure whether we wanted to adopt or foster.  Honestly I was leaning towards adoption because it sounded easier.  Being a foster parent means you are on the front lines so to speak.  When CPS determines that a child needs to be removed from a home, foster parents are the first to help the child deal with this traumatic experience after they have been processed into the system.  The goal for foster kids is reunification with their biological parent(s).  That means that after weeks/months of loving on and becoming attached to a child, assuming the parent(s) got their act together, the child is taken away from the foster parents and returned to their biological parent(s).  While being with their parents is really best for the child, it is still going to be heartbreaking to have them leave.  After the presentation was over, we talked and decided we  were going to go down the path of becoming licensed foster parents.

With the decision having been made to follow where God was leading to become licensed foster parents,  this was going to mean some major changes in our lives.  We had training classes to attend, a bunch of paperwork to fill out and reviews of our home and our lives by state agencies.  Not to mention a level 1 federal background check!  Did I mention that there was lots of paperwork to fill out?  We are clinging to the promise that God doesn’t call the equipped, he equips the called.

Obviously there is more to this story we are several months beyond the orientation meeting as of this blog post.  I didn’t want to make this too long so I am going to break this up into several posts.

Until next time….


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